Tuesday, 06 October 2009
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Elijah James Winters
On Friday, October 2nd, Elijah James Winters was born, at 7:58 in the morning. He weighed 7 pounds 5 ounces, and was 20 1/2 inches long. For those wondering, that means he showed up about two weeks earlier than expected. We had been to see our nurse midwife on Wednesday, and she said Lydia was already 2cm, and that she thought Lydia would deliver within the week. After some random contractions throughout the day on Thursday, the contractions really kicked in that night. We got to the hospital a little after 4am on Friday morning, and Lydia was already 8 cm. By that time, the midwife thought she would do fine without an epidural, so Lydia braved the labor without any pain meds. After a very short labor, thank the Lord, Elijah was born at 7:58, less than 4 hours after we got to the hospital. Having him so early in the day was kind of nice, but Lydia was dragging by the end of the day, after going without sleep for most of the past two nights.
It was interesting being at the hospital, as we were the only Anglo couple there. They joked that they would have no problem matching us up with the right baby. The nurses and midwives were wonderful, and we discovered that we live very close to two of our nurses. Elijah stayed in the room with us, as the hospital does not really have a nursery where the babies stay. While we were a bit worried about the setup at first, it ended up being very helpful. Dealing with a first night of trying to feed every 2 hours and changing diapers and swaddling was a bit overwhelming, but it prepared us for going home. It sort of forced us to get in there and do it all, with a group of nurses to fall back on if needed. It especially paid off when we were told that we would be going home on Saturday afternoon. They originally planned to keep us until Sunday morning, but they were out of beds, so we got sent home. We were not too upset over being sent home, as it has been so much better to be sleeping in our own bed again, and not having to worry about nurses coming in and out throughout the day.
As for Elijah, he is very cute, with little dimples on both cheeks. He gets those from me. People are still split on who he looks like otherwise. I'm sure once our parents come out that they will have very firm opinions on the matter. Speaking of which, the plan had been for all the parents to come out after the due date as the midwife thought we would go late. Since he came so early, it is going to be another 2 1/2 weeks before Lydia's parents make it out here, and mine will come out a week and a half after them. We hate that they are having to wait for so long, but of course we had no way of knowing that he would come so soon. And, it has been nice to be home with just the three of us, trying to establish some sort of routine before others arrive. But trust me, we are very much looking forward to seeing everyone, and can't wait to have the extra help.
So far he has been a very agreeable baby, and has graciously allowed his mom and dad to get some sleep during the night. He is feeding well, although we have to take him in this afternoon for another weigh in. The midwife thinks he is gaining weight, they just need to have it verified on the chart. They had trouble testing his hearing at the hospital, mostly because he would not sit still for them, so we have to take him in on the 29th to the audiologist at the hospital. They say it is normal for the babies not to pass the initial exams, and the test they give in the office is much more precise.
All three of us are doing very well, just trying to adjust to the wonderful addition to our family. Lydia gets six weeks off of work, so she will be home with us until the week before Thanksgiving. After that, it will be me and him every day, and I can't wait. As soon as I have more time, I will put up some more pictures, but here are some to hold you over. Sorry for those on Facebook, because you have already seen most of them.
Wednesday, 26 August 2009
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32 Weeks pregnant, almost 33
Lydia's pregnancy is moving right along. In the beginning, the weeks seemed to creep by, but they seem to be going so fast now. We are now up to doctor visits every two weeks, and before long it will be every week. The belly keeps getting bigger, but Lydia is doing really well. She is definitely growing more tired and she does not move around as quickly as before. But other than that she feels great, and we are both so excited about seeing little Elijah.
Here's Lydia in her maternity uniform. It does not look as good as the regular uniform, but it is much more comfortable and actually fits.

Here's Lydia getting ready to go watch me play some ball.
We went to Albuquerque last weekend for our last weekend out with just the two of us. We saw a movie, got to go out to eat, and enjoyed sleeping in. We also picked up some stuff for the nursery and made a big trip to Best Buy. My laser printer officially died on me, so Lydia bought me a new one. We also picked up a video camera so we will be ready to tape everything Elijah does. Videos will get posted as soon as he arrives, trust me. We also got to meet up with our friends Joel and Liz and had dinner with them at a Mexican restaurant called El Pinto. This was the first time we really had to sit down with them since they got married, so we had a great time.
I have been playing basketball for 2 weeks now with a group of guys. It has been some great exercise as we go 5 on 5 full court. It has also been really good to meet some new people. Charles and Christina Chong have been the driving factors behind us playing, and we hope that they will become good friends. Christina is a doctor at the hospital. Actually, she is my doctor. Charles is a teacher at the middle school with Joel, which is how we first got together with them. Charles and Christina coach the high school girl's basketball team, and Christina played ball in college. Somehow I've gotten stuck guarding her several times and she is far too fast and talented for me. My inner Nathan comes out in those situations, although I try not to foul too hard. It looks like basketball is going to become a twice weekly occurrence, which I love.

The dogs make the games very interesting as they choose random moments to join us on the court. But the dog is super friendly, and after about the first game, he tends to calm down and just lay there.
Another bonus from hanging out with the Chongs is that he is an english teacher who likes to read science fiction. I am hoping to talk him into reading over my book. It is nice getting to meet some more people who actually like to read the same stuff that I like to read and write. As for the book, it is going well. I have decided to spend the time between now and the baby arriving working on rewriting the book. I won't try to send it out until after Elijah is here and things have settled down a bit. That will give me time to go through the book some more and to get a few more people to read over it for me. I just keep trying to be patient and not get too rushed in trying to get it out.
In Westport news, this week I talked to Keith and we are trying to work out a possible mission trip next summer. I had dropped the ball on it, but Keith has gotten me back in gear. I would so love to get Westport connected to our church out here. I think it would be great for both churches. As we get more details, I will be sure to let you know.
Well, back to the writing. We miss you all and cannot wait until we can introduce Elijah to everyone.
Monday, 27 July 2009
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Back in Arizona, again
So we are finally back in Arizona, and we will be here for some time. We have plans for one more weekend in Albuquerque to finish buying everything for the nursery, but after that, we will be here until after Elijah is born. It is sad to think that we won't get to see anybody from back home for another three months, but it is nice to know that we will have time at home to get ready for Elijah. And I'm hoping that during the long period of being at home, that I will be able to finish up my rewriting and start my book on the process to being published. Again, God keeps teaching me patience.
While we were in Kentucky, we had three great baby showers. It was wonderful getting to see everybody, but it always seems like there are people we don't get to spend as much time with, or who we completely miss. If you fall into either of those two categories, I am very sorry. A week always sounds so long when we first arrive in Kentucky, but by the middle of the week, time is starting to fly by. But the showers were a lot of fun, much more fun than wedding showers, and we got so much stuff for Elijah. Our living room is currently a disaster zone, as I have everything laid out in there, trying to figure out if we have enough clothes, towels, blankets, etc. The nursery is starting to come together, and this weekend we finally cleared our stuff out of the closet so we could start filling it with his stuff. Once we get the nursery organized, I will put up some pictures. Right now it still looks pretty bare as we have yet to hang anything on the walls. But we're making progress, trust me.
Before the Westport potluck/shower, the church had a contemporary service with Pat Day as the speaker. If you ever get the chance to hear him speak, do it. He has an amazing testimony, and it is incredible to hear how God blessed him with such an amazing talent. That night we also did Cardboard Testimonies, which were so moving, especially considering that the whole thing was done without saying a single word.
Below are a random assortment of pictures from our time at home.
We got Liz and Lydia together for a few pictures the night we arrived. We were so worried that Liz would go into labor before we would get any. Unfortunately, little Zeke arrived the day after we left, but he is healthy and doing well, as are Ben and Liz.
Here is our cake from the family shower. It was delicious.

Lydia had to buy this little outfit when she saw it.
Here are some pictures with my grandparents, with Rosanne sneaking into the first one.

We did not plan to all wear blue, we just all happen to have very good taste.
Pictures from out on the farm. Mom complained that we were too tall, and that all of the pictures made her look short.
And a trip home would not be complete without shooting some guns and hitting some golf balls. After a horrible day of shooting with Joel and his nephews in New Mexico, I redeemed myself in Kentucky. And we made it through the whole week without me breaking another driver, so I will call it a success.
We had a great time while we were home, but we are so thankful to be back safely. We do not know when we will make it back to Kentucky, but we are sure that it will be after Elijah is born, so we are thinking February or March. We already miss everybody, and we can't wait until we can introduce Elijah to you all.
Wednesday, 08 July 2009
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Short entry about our trip to Kentucky
As most of you know, we are heading to Kentucky on Friday. I just wanted to let everyone know that we will be at Westport Baptist Church Sunday morning, and we will be there for donuts and coffee. Donnie should have no problems talking Lydia into eating a donut now (random fact for you, Krispy Kreme goes with doughnuts, while the other biggie goes with Dunkin' Donuts, I prefer Krispy Kreme, but whatever). For everyone else, I hope we get to see you at one of the showers. For all of the OCHS 1999 grads, we will not be going to the reunion, and we hate that we will not get to see you all. And now, back to work on the book. I promise we will put up plenty of pictures once we get back from Kentucky. I hope we get to see a lot of you next week.
Thursday, 25 June 2009
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24 Weeks Pregnant Tomorrow
Lydia will soon be 24 weeks pregnant, and the days seem to keep flying by. We are both feeling little Elijah kick more than ever, which has been very exciting. And aside from some difficulty sleeping through the night, Lydia is doing great. She continues to regain energy and work seems to be going better every day.
The changing table and crib are finally together, and they match perfectly. Buying two pieces from different stores made us a bit nervous, but the wood matches and looks like it could be part of a set. But thankfully there will not be anymore furniture to put together in the near future. I got hurt in the process, a nice little cut on my finger, and little got very frustrated. It was not a good evening for anyone. But they are together, and they look good, and that is all that matters. In this first picture, I've got two books that Lydia bought me for Father's Day, both children's books. I am already looking forward to reading them to Elijah. My goal is to make sure he has the same love of reading that I have, because I could not take two people in the house who aren't big readers. Also, the red backpack is my backpack for carrying around Elijah when we go hiking. I cannot wait until he is old enough for us to use it.
We also took some more pictures of Lydia's belly for all of those back in Kentucky. I think she looks adorable.
Currently, we are getting the house ready for visitors. Lydia's sister and niece, Dorian and Camryn, are coming out to stay with us for a few days. We'll pick them up at the train station on Sunday and then I'll drive them to the airport on Wednesday. This will be the first time they have seen our home, and we are so excited about it. They will also be the first to try out the sleeper sofa, so we're hoping that they give it a good report. Our parents are also hoping it gets a good report, as that is where they will be sleeping when they come to visit.
As for me, the book continues to go well, and I am trying to get as much editing done as possible in between getting our place ready. The goal is still to start sending out letters before the summer is over.
We are both looking forward to coming home in July and cannot wait to see everybody. Another reminder, please be saving your Campbell's soup labels and Box Tops for Education for Hilltop Christian School. I will be more than happy to pick them up when we are home in July. We love you all and miss you like crazy.
Wednesday, 17 June 2009
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Baby Elijah James and more about Alaska
Sorry to take so long to post the pictures, but I finally got them up. All of these were up on Tuesday night in case you already saw them.
So the ultrasound went great and we found out we are having a boy. Elijah James weighed 1 pound 4 ounces, and Lydia will be 23 weeks pregnant on Friday. He is healthy and everything is looking good. We were not allowed to take a video of the ultrasound and the guy only printed out two pictures. Lydia is not happy about it, but our baby's healthy and that is all that matters. This should be our only ultrasound unless there are complications in the future. And for those who are wondering, the hospital does not have the 3D/4D ultrasounds, so it was not even an option. The first picture is of Elijah's head, no word on whether it will follow in the tradition of most Winters males. (For those that don't know, we tend to have large heads)
The other picture is of little Elijah's face. Lydia is convinced that our child will have dimples, and has been trying to see if the ultrasound reveals anything. I don't think it does.
Lydia's due date is still October 15th. Both sets of parents have already made plans to come out soon after the baby is born and we cannot wait. Lydia is doing great and is slowly regaining her energy. I actually fell asleep before she did last night, which hardly ever happens. Her belly keeps getting bigger, and the midwife says she is right on track for her weight gain. Like the midwife says, there is still not a bit of fat on her, she is just all baby.
Alaska was amazing. But the first night was horrible. We arrived in Anchorage at 12:30 am, and waited about an hour to get our bags and get our rental car. Thankfully, the guy at the rental car place new exactly where the Air Force base was and gave perfect directions. Sadly, there was a ton of road construction going on, so the directions he gave us did not prove to be very helpful. After a short detour through some sort of retreat center, we made it to the base. Once at the base, around 2am, the guards gave us directions to our lodging and we were off. Unfortunately, there was road construction on the base that apparently the guard was not aware of. After cruising around the base for a bit, we found the lodging. Only to have no clue where the lobby was, as the lodging was spread across several buildings. One phone call later, we found the lobby, only to discover that they messed up our reservations. They had empty rooms but none of them were clean. So, at 3:30am, we were given a list of hotels and told to call one for the night. Needless to say, Lydia was not happy. So, we called my parents, got them to look up the Days Inn number, and checked into a hotel about 4am. As checkout was 11am, we paid far too much for only a few hours of sleep. Thankfully, after that, everything went great.
We stayed at Elmendorf Air Force Base, and the room was great. Another wonderful perk of Lydia's job. Our rooms were right next to their runway, which was noisy, but we got to see fighters flying in and out everyday, which I enjoyed. We checked out a weekend market in Anchorage where I got to eat halibut, salmon, and reindeer. All were tasty.
We hiked along a trail in Anchorage that went right past two moose chowing down on the bushes. Lydia took two quick pictures, and we moved on.
We traveled south down Seward Highway along the coast to Portage Glacier, which can barely be seen in the background of our pictures. To get any closer, you needed a boat. We also got to visit an animal conservation center that had black and brown bear, moose, elk, caribou, muskoxen, etc. It was probably the coolest part of the whole trip.
We also headed north to Eklutna lake where we were attacked by mosquitoes, and met a moose standing on the road.
The Salmon runs were in full swing while we were there, and we got to see people fishing Ship Creek everyday. We only saw one salmon get pulled out, but we still had fun.
There were warnings about bears everywhere but we never saw them, or any trace of them, which we were thankful for.
And finally a few pictures of us standing beside much safer versions of a bear and a moose.
Overall, the trip went much better than we could have hoped for. Lydia got to spend several hours at the clinic, and was able to find out a ton of information about the residency program. They encouraged her to apply this October, and seemed very encouraging. We continue to pray about where God would have us go, but if we had to make the decision right now, we would be heading to Alaska next summer.
Needless to say, with everything that has been going on, the book has gotten pushed aside over the past two weeks. The rest of my week is going to be focused on putting together our baby bead and changing table, and cleaning up our house. Things got out of control with the trip and all. And we are also getting ready for Lydia's sister and niece to come visit a week from Sunday. This will be their first time out here, and we cannot wait.
We are looking forward to our trip home in July and cannot wait to see everybody. Thanks to everybody throwing the church showers, we really appreciate it, and love that we will get to see so many of you. We love you all and miss you.
Tuesday, 16 June 2009
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We're Having A Boy!!!
We found out today that we are having a boy!!! He is very healthy and his name is Elijah James. We can't wait until October 15th for him to show up.
On a lesser note, we had a great time in Alaska, and I will put up a new entry with pictures tomorrow.
Friday, 05 June 2009
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Stingray City and Alaska!
We are heading to Anchorage for a fun filled trip. We have been looking through tons of books and trying to get people's input on what to do while we are up there. So far, we are planning to see a glacier, do some whale spotting, hit a big open market, maybe get a peak of Denali, visit a wildlife preserve, see a few museums (if the weather is bad, otherwise I'll be stopping there when Lydia is at her classes), and of course seeing all that Alaska can offer. We have a list of restaurants to hit, and we hope to eat a ton of fresh seafood. The salmon will be running while we are there, and we should get a chance to observe some combat fishing. I hope to spot another moose for Sheila at The Bank OC, and maybe we can even see a bear, but from a safe distance. The trip should be a blast. But please be praying for us as we use this time to look further into the residency program up there. We want to make sure that we are going where God wants us. Also, pray for our safety as we will hopefully be doing a lot of driving and a lot of hiking up there.
For those wondering, we will have almost 20 hours of daylight while we are in Alaska, the highs will be in the 60s, and the lows will be in the 40s.
Since we should have a boatload of pictures when we get back, you all know us well enough by now, I thought I should get the rest of the cruise pics up before I leave. These pictures are from our disposable, waterproof camera that we just got developed. They are all from Stingray city, where we got to feed the stingrays. There were like 40 of them swimming all around us, and they got a bit aggressive when the food came out. My niece Camryn was not a big fan of the stingrays, that is why she is being held in all of the pictures. But she got out there with us, which impressed me.
Lydia is now 21 weeks pregnant! When we get back next week we will have our first ultrasound, and will hopefully find out if we are having a boy, or girl, or twins. She is doing really well, and has not been as tired lately. When we get back, we will be sure to post some more pictures of her belly. Here are two from 20 weeks.
The book is going great, and I hope to get some more work done on it over the trip if I can't sleep on the flight.
Well, off to get everything packed and ready. We cannot wait to come home in July and see everybody at the showers.
Wednesday, 20 May 2009
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Heading to Alaska for a week
As some of you may know, we have been looking into a trip to Alaska. There is a residency program in Anchorage that Lydia would really like to be a part of. It is a two year residency that she will be eligible to apply for at the end of her first two years of service. So, we are heading to Alaska in June to meet the director of the residency program and to check out the hospital up there. We will also have some time for sightseeing. Then, at the end of the week, Lydia will have two days of CE courses, and then we fly back. The really awesome thing about when we are going is that it will be almost 24 hours of daylight. The longest day of the year, the summer solstice, is on June 21st, so we will be there at a perfect time. We are going to be staying on the Air Force base, one of the perks of Lydia's job. So if anyone has been to Anchorage and has any suggestions, please let us know. We are looking into a few hikes, watching for whales, and checking out a glacier, but we are open to any ideas.
I wanted to thank everyone who has been collecting Campbell's soup labels or Box Tops for Education. I turned in a bunch of them the other day. I had 148 Campbell's points, and 115 Box Tops! Please keep collecting, as they all go to help the Hilltop Christian School, which is part of the Western Indian Ministries. The Box Tops are found on a ton of different products, including Juicy Juice, Pillsbury, Ziploc, and cereals, to only name a few. You can mail them too me, turn them into Keith (at Westport), Carla (at Dehaven), or Kathy (at Ballardsville), or hang on to them until we are back in Kentucky next, which will be in July. Thanks again for all of your help.
Work continues to go well for Lydia and there does not seem to be any complications with her pregnancy. We praise God that everything has gone so smoothly. I am editing my book like crazy, but it is taking a lot of time. I have no idea when I will finish it up.
Thanks again for all of your prayers and we look forward to seeing everyone in July.
Wednesday, 13 May 2009
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Cruise and baby stuff
We just got back from an amazing cruise last week. We could not say anything about it as it was a surprise for Lydia's sister Dorian, for her 40th birthday. Her husband Kevin arranged the whole thing, and the trip was so much fun. The cruise was with Royal Caribbean on the Freedom of the Seas, the largest cruise ship ever. We went to Labadee, Haiti; Montego Bay, Jamaica; and Grand Cayman. The best part of the trip was feeding the stingrays at Grand Cayman and then snorkeling along the reef. The fish were beautiful, and while the stingrays were not beautiful, they were really cool. There will be many pictures to follow.
On the baby front, we went to the doctor today and got to hear the baby's heartbeat again. Everything went great and the pregnancy is moving along smoothly. We will find out the sex of the baby on June 17th. We had hoped to find out a week earlier, but it looks like our trip to Alaska is going to work out after all. While we were in town the other day, we registered at Baby's R Us and picked up a Kelty baby backpack which I am so pumped about. I am now ready to pack our child wherever.
Lydia has been feeling really good, besides being tired. There was one day on the cruise where she got a little nauseated, but she has always had problems with motion sickness. After that first day, she did just fine. For those wondering, I had no problems at all, beyond getting a nasty bruise on my knee from boogie boarding. More on that later.
Now that we are back from the cruise, I am going to be focusing on editing my first book. I have gotten back my critiques and I am very excited to start the rewrites. I am sure my excitement will die off a little, but I truly have been looking forward to digging into it.
Here is a video we took at the doctor's today when they listened to the baby's heartbeat. I hope you enjoy it.
Here are a bunch of pictures from the cruise.

This is Lydia, Kevin, and Camryn as we were pulling into Haiti.

Quick note on the tie. So we were all getting ready for the first formal night, when I realized that I had failed to pack a tie. I quickly went to the row of shops on board and picked out the beautiful tie that you see. Amazingly it was only $10. It is not the greatest tie, but it worked.

The ship had a new feature called the flowrider. It was a big ramp that had water shooting up it that you could either surf or boogie board on. Surfing looked more painful, so we stuck to boogie boarding. It was fun, but I was not good at it. And on my third attempt, I got rolled over the top and scraped my knee on the grate. Needless to say, that ended my short lived attempt to boogie board.
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